The relationships breakers: Seven deadly mistakes
In this article, we will examine the mistakes done by individuals, which result in breaking up of a relationship.
1: Having affairs
Trust and fidelity are the cornerstones of a strong and everlasting romantic relationship. But having secret affair with another person, while being already committed can result in breaking relationship. You can never have a secret relationship with another girl, while being with someone else. No man and woman can tolerate that.
2: Lying to get out of sticky situations
Lying is to trust as kryptonite is to Superman. One white lie can destroy years of relationship. Lying to get out of situations can makes matters worse. Lies may seem harmless at first and odd. Lying means that you are not sincere with your partner.
Similarly, lies spread like plague and only manages to end up the relationship.
3: Pointing fingers or playing the blame game
Blame game also called pointing fingers can result in big fights over trivial matters. This becomes a habit, when you hold responsible the other person for ever action.
This is also becomes a plague, when girl is held responsible for everything.
4: Coming from work late
You need to spend time with your girlfriend in order to keep the relationship alive. But, if you arrive at the office at 6 in the morning and reach home at 10 pm, this tends to create an imbalance. The girl won’t be happy, as she has no importance in the eyes of her man.
Coming home this late will only result in deep sleep and unhappiness from the female side. If you can’t do the time, then don’t get into relationships.
5: Yelling and screaming to show superiority
If you can’t have a calm talk it out session with your girl, then you may call it quits. Your relationship is leading to doomsday.
Control your anger and talk to your girl nicely. Don’t ever yell and scream, that never leads to problem solving.
6: Not listening to your female: Taking her for granted
Not lending an able ear to your girl may also lead to the road to relationship conclusion. You have to give your girl some importance and make her feel secure. Have a face to face talk. Having a talk in front of a Chelsea vs. Manchester United football showdown is not exactly talking.
7: Discussing skeletons from the cupboard
Also, not very healthy and positive is the discussion of past mistakes, you or your women committed. Bringing up past mistakes again and again can destroy a relationship. It means you are not over your girl’s wrongdoings.
So, don’t take out skeletons from the cupboard. They can fuse the candle with one blow. Forgive and forget is the call of the day.
The final word
If you avoid, these seven deadly mistakes, then you can have a long and romantic relationship.
Don’t do these of the following:
2: Discussing past mistakes
5: Not responding
These are counterproductive to any relationship. Long hours at the office will finish the relationship.
The blame game and pointing fingers are also not very healthy either. Follow the seven doomsday rules, to avoid doomsday.